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Anger isn’t random — it’s protective.
At ShiftGrit Edmonton, we help you decode what your outbursts, irritability, or emotional shutdown are really defending against.
This isn’t about “managing” anger. It’s about understanding the pattern behind it — and rewiring it at the source.
Anger that feels out of proportion to the moment is usually about more than the moment.
What most people call overreacting is often a survival pattern from the past — one that your emotional brain has learned to run on autopilot.
We don’t believe that anger is a flaw.
We believe it’s a flag — waving to let you know that something deeper still feels unsafe, unseen, or threatened.
We don’t just ask what makes you angry. We ask what your brain thinks it’s protecting you from.
Our therapy process goes beyond talk — we trace identity-level beliefs like:
I don’t matter
I’m powerless
I’m always at risk
Then we use reconditioning to neutralize the belief driving the reactivity — so the trigger doesn’t register as a threat anymore.
We use a structured therapeutic process backed by psychological theory and neuroscience. That includes:
Pattern Theory: A framework to explain why you keep reacting the same way — and how the loop formed in the first place
Reconditioning: A 5-step intervention that works with the part of your brain responsible for threat response
Client education: So you understand the why behind your anger — and how change actually works
This isn’t coping. This is identity-level change.
If you’re tired of walking on eggshells — around others or yourself — we can help you shift the pattern.
ShiftGrit Psychology & Counselling
📍 Address: 815 17 Ave SW, Suite #210, Calgary, AB, T2T 0A1
📞 Phone: (587) 352-6463
📧 Email: mountroyal@shiftgrit.shop
From the Blog: Anger & Reactivity Patterns & Insights